cleaned up includes based on `include-what-you use` #19146

Job	Run time
build_make (ubuntu:25.10)	5m 24s
build_make (ubuntu:24.04)	4m 10s
build_cmake (ubuntu:24.04, true, true)	5m 33s
build_cmake (alpine:3.23, false, false)	4m 32s
build_make (alpine:3.23)	6m 4s
build_cmake (ubuntu:25.10, true, true)	5m 15s
	30m 58s

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