Atomic operations are not validated, _id is different, createdOn and updatedOn is not generated

[alldayalone]

I need to use upsert and $setOnUpsert to provide idempotency based on unique external id. It is not possible with the regular update/findOneAndUpdate but with atomic I got problems described in the title

cardService.atomic.findOneAndUpdate({ cardProxy }, ({
    $set: _.omit(card, ['_id', 'cardProxy']),
    $setOnInsert: { _id: cardService.generateId() },
  }), { upsert: true });

[alldayalone]

Let me clarify the use case.
I have a cards collection. It represents debit cards that I order from a 3rd party. It has a unique field cardProxy which is an identifier in a 3rd party service.
A card can be created and updated externally, for all changes we receive a webhook with a card object. I want to save the latest version of the card object every time I receive a webhook.
I should also take into account that webhooks can come in a different order (card:update before card:create) or concurrently.
I should avoid duplicates and stale data in my collection.

@NesterenkoNikita If you have any suggestions for a more simple solution I'll be happy to see it and make up some tests to simulate complicated scenarios for the use case

[NesterenkoNikita]

@alldayalone you can use setServiceMethod to add custom functions to services

[NesterenkoNikita]

Keep in mind that you will not be able to add validation to atomic methods. It's better to avoid using them except in specific situations (like migrations, for example)