[codex] fix Trae SOLO message sending

[Winn1y]

Summary

• 修复 Trae SOLO 模式下消息已发送后，daemon 自动确认误点终止/取消类按钮的问题。
• 自动确认现在会跳过 Stop/Cancel/Terminate 等破坏性按钮，并优先选择安全按钮。
• 补充 approval-utils 覆盖 destructive button 的单测。

Root Cause

Trae SOLO 发送后会进入生成态并显示终止类操作；原先自动确认逻辑在没有匹配到正向按钮时会回退点击第一个按钮，导致消息明明已发出却被自动终止。

Validation

• node adhdev-providers\tests\trae-send-message.test.js
• node adhdev-providers\validate.js adhdev-providers\ide\trae\provider.json
• npm.cmd run test -w packages/daemon-core -- approval-utils.test.ts
• npm.cmd run typecheck -w packages/daemon-core

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[vilmire]

Code-wise LGTM. I reviewed the diff and validated locally with:

• npm run test -w packages/daemon-core -- approval-utils.test.ts
• npm run typecheck -w packages/daemon-core
• npm run test -w packages/daemon-core
• npm run build -w packages/daemon-core

The PR correctly avoids auto-approving destructive Stop/Cancel/Terminate-style buttons and covers the unsafe-button behavior in tests.

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[Winn1y]

Do I need to do anything? @vilmire