chore(deps): Update NitroSQLite from 9.6.0 to 9.8.0

[MelvinBot]

Summary

Update react-native-nitro-sqlite from 9.6.0 to the latest upstream code. Upstream has not published 9.8.0 yet, so [HOLD on Mobile-Expensify#14129] [Task 2/2] chore(deps): Update NitroSQLite to 9.8.0 packages upstream 4f95bbe as an unreleased 9.8.0 snapshot (a vendored tarball). When the registry release lands, the vendored artifact is swapped for the published version.

Why update

• Upstream replaces our iOS database-location patch. Upstream's feat(ios): store databases in Application Support safely adds an Application Support location option plus a safe, generic migration, so the database and its -wal/-shm journals stay out of the user-visible Documents folder without a local patch. This is the upstream fix that [Patch Tracking] react-native-nitro-sqlite+9.6.0+001+store-database-outside-documents was waiting on.
• Upstream replaces our batch error-handling patch. The batch executor change in 02d7775 rolls back exactly once inside its own try, so a failing ROLLBACK no longer masks the original SQLite error — the real storage failure surfaces instead of a secondary "cannot rollback" error.
• Query results are materialized once. perf: materialize query results once avoids repeated copies of the native result vector when callers traverse rows.
• SQLite operations are serialized per connection. fix: serialize SQLite operations and protect connection lifetime prevents unrelated writes from joining another caller's transaction and protects against close/reopen races.
• Additional upstream fixes. fix(ios): enable SQLite performance mode and fix: Improve memory management.

Scope

• Bump NitroSQLite to the 9.8.0 snapshot and bump the peer native deps it requires (Nitro Modules and Nitro Fetch).
• Remove both local patches, which upstream now covers:
  • patches/react-native-nitro-sqlite/react-native-nitro-sqlite+9.6.0+001+dont-mask-original-error-on-rollback-failure.patch
  • patches/react-native-nitro-sqlite/react-native-nitro-sqlite+9.6.0+002+store-database-outside-documents.patch
• Opt both iOS hosts into the Application Support location via RNNitroSQLite_DatabaseLocation in their own Info.plist: standalone NewDot in App, and HybridApp in the companion PR Mobile-Expensify#14129.

Follow-up

Replace the vendored 9.8.0 snapshot with the published 9.8.0 release from npm once upstream ships it.

[chrispader]

cc @NicolasBonet