[WIP]more fuse activate function and erf for simd

[futz12]

1. conv1d/2d/3d
2. dwconv1d/2d/3d
3. deconv1d/2d/3d
4. dedwconv1d/2d/3d
5. deformerconv2d

activate function fused

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 93.96940% with 67 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 94.00%. Comparing base (f698111) to head (adb267c).
⚠️ Report is 33 commits behind head on master.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/layer/x86/x86_activation.h	61.29%	36 Missing ⚠️
src/layer/loongarch/loongarch_activation.h	70.00%	12 Missing ⚠️
src/layer/mips/mips_activation.h	72.50%	11 Missing ⚠️
src/layer/arm/arm_activation.h	82.05%	7 Missing ⚠️
src/layer/fused_activation.h	97.67%	1 Missing ⚠️

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+ Misses      18208    13133    -5075     

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