fix: skip click cell after resize

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Summary

• skip CLICK_CELL dispatch when pointerup is ending a resize, move, or drag-select interaction
• keep the fix at table-group.ts event source instead of editor cache fallback logic
• add a patch change file for @visactor/vtable

Testing

• pnpm --dir packages/vtable compile
• git push -u origin fix/issue-5186-edit-after-resize

Fixes #5186