fix(client): handle stream start rejection in subscribe

[shivanshgupta365]

Summary

• handle the fire-and-forget start promise created by ShapeStream.subscribe
• keep fatal errors delivered through the subscriber error callback without also producing a process-level unhandled rejection
• add a regression test for the Node/Bun failure path
• include the required patch changeset for @electric-sql/client

Fixes #4736

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